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How long is too long to date someone before making a commitment to marriage? Please read this letter sent to me by a Light listener and share your comment. Thanks

Dear Jerry,

I am a loyal listener of the Light 103.9 and love all of the DJs on the station. I have a situation that I am looking for feedback from you and your listeners. I’ve been in a relationship with a gentleman for 9 years. We are in our mid thirties and have a very good relationship. He is my quote unquote boy friend and I am his girl friend. I must admit we do live together and I want us to do the right thing and get married.

He wont commit to getting married and says that we will get married at some point but he’s not sure when. It hard to up and leave but I feel as though we have been together long enough now and if he doesn’t want to make that commitment then maybe I should move on. Pleas ask you audience should I be patient and wait or should I move on. Maybe someone listening has been through the same thing. Thanks.

Rebecca G